April 15th, 2009 | 77 Comments

Handling Life’s Negative People and Their Comments

Everyone of us can say we know at least one person or have come in contact with at least one person who is negative about everything under the sun. And, we all know how draining and tiresome these kinds of people and their negative comments can be on our own lives.

There are many ways you can help the situation when you are confronted with the person and their negativity, especially if you can’t avoid the situation all together, which is what many of us wish to do. Try to take control of the conversation when it starts to take a negative turn. Keep things from your end on a positve note.

Whether we know it or not, the office gossiper is a negative person, and the family member that calls you on a regular basis with who is doing what lately within the family is also. If one is too persistent, and continues to try and suck you down to their negative level, you can whip the situation real fast by just being honest. Tell the person that you have no intentions to discuss others lives that don’t pertain to you and that you would much rather be left alone to form your own opinions of people.

Realize, that the person just may have no concept of what they are doing and how harmful it can be to themselves as well as others. Handling negative people and their comments about anything, everything and everybody, is not an easy task, but can be handled if you know how to stop the negativity before it has time to start. Always, if you are willing or planning to confront the person and their motives for being so negative, do so with kid gloves. Sometimes, we are not aware of others and their reason’s for being negative in the first place.

But, there will always be people that no matter what we do, is just set on being negative no matter what. For these people, sometimes you may just have to be a bit stern with and tell them that you will take no part in their negativity or comments, and it is best they steer clear of you. Seems kind of harsh doesn’t it, but some people just have to be handled in such a manner, in order for them to understand where you are coming from.

One must also make sure that it is indeed negativity coming from the person and not constructive criticism. Make sure you are not the person that has the negative outlook on things. If someone is telling you something about yourself or how you are doing things. That may be all that it is. Many people are meaning well, but do not know how to go about giving the constructive criticism and can come off as a gloom and doom sayer. Make sure to assess the situation and person you are dealing with as this will make for a better way to handle them if they indeed are.

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77 Responses to “Handling Life’s Negative People and Their Comments”

  1. Wherever you go there are bound to be negative people. To be successful you need to learn how to deal with people like that. You don’t necessarily have to block out their criticism, but you can use it in a more constructive way and look on the bright side of things.

  2. Great post! I just try and stay away from negative people they do nothing but bring you down.

  3. Too bad they cannot be avoided completely. The best thing to do is try best to not let them get you down. I know easier said than done, but you don’t want to start acting like them.
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  4. I try to tell myself that it must suck to be them and to be thankful for what i have and how good my life is.

  5. I think its best to just ignore them and take it as a compliment that someone would waste their time not liking you.

  6. Negativity is the worst. I really don’t like hanging out with people who are constantly like this.

  7. negative people are the worst

  8. Enk. says:

    I totally agree on you at
    “Or, you can just come back with some even better, wittier and more sarcastic remarks. :P”

    😀

  9. Farrhad A says:

    haha Thanks for commenting again!

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